Everyone
goes though different changes in life some are easier to get over and others
are more difficult. One difficult thing I have faced growing up was being the
only girl in my family. I have 2 brothers one being my twin and an older one
who is 20. They were very protective of me seeing as how I am their only
sister. There were different times where they would purposely try and get me in
trouble just because my parents would easily believe two over one. When I was
younger I thought it was embarrassing since all of my friends brothers were
"normal" and didn't really care what their sister did. Where I had to
deal with them taking my phone to see who I am talking to or showing up places
to see if I was really there, and also scaring away any guy that tried talking
to me. I found it very annoying to the point where I tried yelling at them and
proving to them that they did not need to be so protective. I felt like my
parents enjoyed the fact that they treated me like that so I considered it a
waste of time to even try and get them to do anything about it. Not until my
junior year of high school they seemed to have calmed down about things. They
were finally accepting the fact that I was getting older and knew my rights
from wrongs. From then on I ended up becoming really close with my twin
brother. We would talk about everything together. This could be the reason why
they don't stalk my life anymore. Even though they are still protective about
some things I realized that it is only because they care and are just trying to
look out for me. I now appreciate all the times they would "embarrass” me
and yell at me for certain things. I also thank them for always being there for
me because we now have a stronger relationship with each other. Although, it
was hard dealing with this problem I knew one day there would be an end to it.
It made me a stronger person that I am now aware why they were so protective. This
will help me in college because it allows me to deal with things better and
always look for the purpose in it. I can also go to my siblings for help and
advice in case I struggle in certain classes or particular areas in college.

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